Mother of the Bride Speech

  While I was envisioning what the elements are in writing genuine mother of the bride speeches, I started wondering about the role as the mother of the bride.  I established that being the mother of the bride was really bitter sweet.  It is what most mothers and daughters have considered partaking in their whole lives.

Your daughter will most likely need your advice.  Like most daughters, now and then she’ll take it – now and then she won’t.   The one thing you want to remember is that it is your daughter’s day and her special event.   You will talk about many moments, from helping her choose her dress, how to style her hair, and even who will sit where at the reception.  

  First, you want to thank all who made the wedding possible. Next, you want to give a heartfelt speech. Finally, we’re going to finish up with the closing.

  First, let’s talk about the Introduction. This is where you want to thank everyone, and introduce yourself. Thank all guest, wedding party, family, and friends. It will make everyone feel special, knowing that their part in the wedding is appreciated. Be sure to write down names, if you think you will forget. Forgetting often happens when your mind is going a million miles per minute, which will be the case. Nothing is worse than not saying all you wanted to, on your daughter’s special day. Give her blessings on her new marriage and be able to offer your gift of support for the new blissful couple. This is a very important wedding speech.  Quite truthfully, it may be the only time you’ll have everyone’s attention to express your thanks and appreciation. Practice with a trusted friend or by yourself in the mirror. Begin writing it when you find out she is getting married. This way you can be sure to say all you need and want to.

  Next, let’s talk about your speech. Your speech will need to be short and sweet. Mention words of wisdom, be humorous, and charming. Talk about your favorite memories of her growing up, or a funny story. You don’t want to get too personal, as that might embarrass her. At this moment, everyone will be teary eyed. Follow up with a joke, all will enjoy. Also, welcome your son-in-law to the family. Make your speech memorable, and 5 to 7 minutes long. Stand up straight, smile; use your hands to eliminate nerves it’s a good thing to talk about your favorite part of the wedding. 

  Finally, let’s talk about your closing. This has to end with a bang! Talk a little about the groom, his good qualities, and how wonderful he is. Also mention his parents, who made him possible.  Let him know you have confidence in him, to take care of your daughter. Give them good advice for a successful marriage, or wish them the best. Make certain you don’t forget anyone, make it heartfelt, sincere, charismatic, and this will be a speech, your daughter will never forget. If you would like a blueprint of exactly how to give the perfect speech, check out a great resource here.