Speeches for a Best Man

  So, your closest friend is getting married. I know a lot of things are running through your mind. One is, “What are the elements of the best, best man speeches?” Too often, people wing it, and regret not being prepared. Preparation is a requirement. Give yourself plenty of time, to write and rehearse your speech. Find a trusted friend who you can practice in front of. If you don’t have a trusted friend, then practice in front of the mirror. It’s important, to practice several times, to ensure you don’t forget key points.

  First, let’s talk about the introduction. You always want to introduce yourself. There may be guests attending who don’t know you personally. Thank everyone for supporting your friend on his special day. If there is anyone who might have gone above and beyond for him, be sure to mention it. Make certain to turn towards the guests when speaking. This will add a sincere touch to your speech. It will also set the tone for the rest of your best man’s speech.

  Next, let’s talk about what you will say to the groom and his new bride. You want to make a general comment about the new happy couple. Flatter the groom. Let everyone know, what a great friend, and person he is. Tell him how much your friendship means to you. It’s ok if you get emotional. This is likely to happen, don’t be embarrassed! It will only show that you are speaking from the heart, which is extremely important. When you have an emotional connection to what you are saying, your speech will come across more genuine. Talk about a great memory you two share. Don’t get too personal. Adjust your speech to the groom’s personality. If he jokes at his own expense, go for it. If he is more serious, you can still be funny. Just balance your jokes with your sincere comments. Also, don’t have too much to drink; you don’t want to embarrass yourself. You can touch base on how they met, and your feelings about the bride.

  If you are nervous about speaking, sip wine 15 minutes before your turn to speak. This will ease your nerves for sure. You can also move your hands while you give your best man’s speech. Another great tip is to look the groom in the eye while talking to him. It will make the crowd seem smaller and less intimidating.

  Finally, let’s talk about your closing. Your closing should be to the point. Tell the bride how great she looks. Let the happy couple know how honored you are to be a part of their special day. Sum up how great of a friend the groom is. Make it a point to let them know how happy you are for the both of them. How do they complement each other? What are some qualities they both bring to the table that makes them such a great team? All these are essential to having the best, best man speech. If you are still not sure of exactly how to say it, here is a great resource for best man speeches.